Guidance for Newlyweds on Sexual Intimacy

For newlyweds, due to a lack of sexual experience, it's normal to encounter issues such as unsuccessful intercourse or difficulty with penetration. In such cases, mutual cooperation between partners is crucial, and males should also acquire sexual techniques, knowledge about lovemaking, and maintain healthy sexual psychology and hygiene. Below, we briefly introduce these aspects.

I. Methods to Address Penetration Difficulties

During the first sexual encounter, if penetration proves difficult, the female partner can assist in locating the vaginal opening, or the male can carefully observe and gently proceed. This requires exploration and trial-and-error from both sides.

II. Precautions for the First Time Together

While sexual intimacy brings joy, it can also evoke nervousness, especially for those with no prior experience. Therefore, it's best to avoid interruptions from friends or family to preserve this most cherished and anticipated moment. Here are some suggestions:

1. Before initial sexual intercourse, engage in ample foreplay, adopt suitable positions (e.g., male-above-female), and enter gently. The male should offer comforting words and attention to alleviate the female's shyness. Gentle movements help overcome her nervousness and fear, relaxing her and expediting sexual arousal. This increases vaginal secretions, enhancing lubrication and reducing pain during intercourse, including that caused by the breaking of the hymen.
2. Remember to brush your teeth during bathing and clean up any wedding remnants before bedtime. Using mouthwash or breath fresheners can prevent bad breath. Changing into clean underwear is essential; merely wrapping a towel or robe around oneself is not appropriate. Wearing underwear also adds to the thrill of undressing during the act.
3. Allowing your partner to get into bed first is a considerate gesture. The male can excuse himself briefly, say to use the bathroom, politely letting the female precede to avoid embarrassment. He then quietly lies down on her right side. Avoid the semi-commanding tone of asking the female to join after the male is already in bed, as this may leave a negative impression.

III. Important Reminder:

For males experiencing sexual intercourse for the first time, it's vital to be aware of precautions. Besides the aforementioned points, it's crucial to ensure proper contraception during sexual activity to effectively prevent unintended pregnancy.

Please note, the above content serves as general advice and does not constitute professional medical or sexual education guidance. When engaging in any sexual activity, it's essential to ensure mutual consent and adhere to safety principles. For specific questions or concerns regarding sexual health, consult a professional doctor or sexual education institution.